Home Alone

What do you do after a breakup or divorce and you are home alone? Recently, I realized that I’m occupying an empty nest. I’m home alone with-out kids 2 days a week and every other weekend for 4 days. I wondered what do I do with my time and energy? I’m home alone and it… Continue reading Home Alone

The Relationship Expiration Date

Did you know that every relationship has an expiration date? Even your relationship right now has an expiration date. Some expire sooner than others but they will eventually expire at some point.  I know that this may seem a bit daunting but it is true. We have an expiration date on our love life and friendships.  I… Continue reading The Relationship Expiration Date

Is FaceBook Helping You to Formulate Judgement?

I was talking to a woman the other day and she stated that she removed herself from social media because she started judging people too harshly. With every post, she viewed her friends and colleagues differently.  If they wrote something that she didn’t like, it would put a red flag on their friendship.  She didn’t like… Continue reading Is FaceBook Helping You to Formulate Judgement?

What does love have to do with it?

Sitting here at my desk, I thought about this question, what does love have to do with it? Hmmm… I thought to myself:  Nothing and everything. What does love have to do with it when it pertains to your health in your relationship? As I sat in my quietness, it was revealed to me that… Continue reading What does love have to do with it?

The Unspoken & The Broken

Michel’le said to Wendy Williams on her show on Oct 4th, “Well you stayed because it was normal.” “I took it in a way, of this was how he loved me.” “I was already doped up so, it didn’t hurt.” Michel’le also asked Wendy, “Why didn’t he leave?” “Why don’t the men walk away?” Well,… Continue reading The Unspoken & The Broken

Can you love more than one?

She came to me and said, you love more than one, you’re loved by many. You don’t have to be alone, you can be loved and find love. You have not just one but three loves of your life. You have a roommate, a soulmate, and a fire soulmate. I thought about this and wondered… Continue reading Can you love more than one?

Who are your true friends?

They were afraid of the unknown more than I was, they fought me on my decision, they gave me scared tactics, they didn’t want to know the truth, that I was unhappy. They wanted me to be in a relationship that they thought could be their own. Some may have checked on me, others sent… Continue reading Who are your true friends?