The Unspoken & The Broken

Michel’le said to Wendy Williams on her show on Oct 4th, “Well you stayed because it was normal.” “I took it in a way, of this was how he loved me.” “I was already doped up so, it didn’t hurt.” Michel’le also asked Wendy, “Why didn’t he leave?” “Why don’t the men walk away?” Well,… Continue reading The Unspoken & The Broken

Who Loves Who More?

When I was a teenage, my parents told me to” be with someone who loves you more than you do them” Hmmm… How can someone love you more than you love them and not feel like you are with a stalker? (just a thought) During my dating years, I kept certain questions in the back of… Continue reading Who Loves Who More?

Can I Find Freedom in a Committed Relationship?

Defining Commitment Google defines commitment as an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action. Merriam-Webster defines commitment as a promise to be loyal to someone or something. When we look at these definitions you can’t help, but to wonder… Hmmm…. Why are people afraid of commitment? Here are things that people tell themselves to reinforce… Continue reading Can I Find Freedom in a Committed Relationship?

Open Relationships: Is this realistic? Broken Trust or Very Trusting

Since the 1970’s the term “Open Relationship” has been talked about and discussed among couples. Having an open relationship means that both parties have agreed on some type of term that their partner or themselves can have sexual relations with someone else. This world can be very tricky. The Woman Who Waits The Wife: In… Continue reading Open Relationships: Is this realistic? Broken Trust or Very Trusting

Strip Clubs!!!! Why Do People Go?

This question came up the other day when I was speaking to a friend. She asked me “Why do people go to Strip Clubs?”, “What do they get out of it?” especially, women! What is the deal? Let’s talk about strip clubs! Well, I will discuss my view points on male and female strip clubs.… Continue reading Strip Clubs!!!! Why Do People Go?

Too Much Or Too Little…We are Talking about Sex!

Hmmm…. I will be married for 17 years in a month and I am asked 1 question… How do you keep the romance going? 1) Get a babysitter (sittercity.com). You need to go on dates with your mate at least 2x a  month (if your income allows it, then increase to once a week). If you… Continue reading Too Much Or Too Little…We are Talking about Sex!