Is FaceBook Helping You to Formulate Judgement?

I was talking to a woman the other day and she stated that she removed herself from social media because she started judging people too harshly. With every post, she viewed her friends and colleagues differently.  If they wrote something that she didn’t like, it would put a red flag on their friendship.  She didn’t like… Continue reading Is FaceBook Helping You to Formulate Judgement?

What does love have to do with it?

Sitting here at my desk, I thought about this question, what does love have to do with it? Hmmm… I thought to myself:  Nothing and everything. What does love have to do with it when it pertains to your health in your relationship? As I sat in my quietness, it was revealed to me that… Continue reading What does love have to do with it?

Who are your true friends?

They were afraid of the unknown more than I was, they fought me on my decision, they gave me scared tactics, they didn’t want to know the truth, that I was unhappy. They wanted me to be in a relationship that they thought could be their own. Some may have checked on me, others sent… Continue reading Who are your true friends?

The 4 weeks of Clarity

It came down to it, Does He Leave? or Do I leave? The Separation was needed and it was clear. 20 years of togetherness and we disliked each other. Each of us wanted to change the person that we were with. We were angry inside and passive aggressive on the outside. It showed in our kiss… Continue reading The 4 weeks of Clarity

Affairs…Why do people have them?

  I recently came across this video and it made me think… What the Hell are they talking about? Two people entering in a relationship don’t have the same amount of distance and closeness with each other to formulate a committed monogamous relationship. So they then seek out someone else to balance the relationship. Hmmm…… Continue reading Affairs…Why do people have them?

Married & Divorced After 1 year, Was it Lust or Love?

Time and time again, the story is told, a couple meets, fall in love and get married. A short time passes by  then everyone hears that the couple is divorced. It’s has been less than 2 years. People thought the couple were in love, they wondered what happened? Was it lust or was it love?… Continue reading Married & Divorced After 1 year, Was it Lust or Love?