The Fear is Gone The Saint is Back

I was living in and with fear for a very long time, it was around me, inside of me and taking control over me until it took hold over my body, mind, and soul. In August, I searched for clarity regarding fear! I knew the answer but I still wanted to fix fear and brush… Continue reading The Fear is Gone The Saint is Back

Who are your true friends?

They were afraid of the unknown more than I was, they fought me on my decision, they gave me scared tactics, they didn’t want to know the truth, that I was unhappy. They wanted me to be in a relationship that they thought could be their own. Some may have checked on me, others sent… Continue reading Who are your true friends?

How can you find Clarity in Your Relationship?

It came down to it, Does He Leave? or Do I leave? The Separation was needed and it was clear. 15 years of togetherness and we disliked each other. Each of us wanted to change the person that we were with. We were angry inside and passiveĀ aggressive on the outside. It showed in our kiss… Continue reading How can you find Clarity in Your Relationship?

The D Word – Divorce

It had to happen, it was quick, harsh, painful and it was a release. We had a Divorce. The Divorce was real it wasn’t something that we wanted to talk about. We knew it was the deadly D-Word. The word that piercedĀ our ears, our soul, we didn’t want to utter the sounds of this word.… Continue reading The D Word – Divorce

30 yrs! She has Given Up

Late last night I met a woman complaining to her friend about wanting to leave her husband after 30 yrs of marriage. So, of course I wanted her to share her story with me. I decided to stop writing my chapter of my book and interrupt their conversation. I was curious about her story. So… Continue reading 30 yrs! She has Given Up

Why People Have Affairs?

  I recently came across this video and it made me think… What the Hell are they talking about? Two people entering in a relationship don’t have the same amount of distance and closeness with each other to formulate a committed monogamous relationship. So they then seek out someone else to balance the relationship. Hmmm…… Continue reading Why People Have Affairs?

The Stranger in My House

Have you ever felt like your love one is a stranger? Have you felt like the person laying in the bed next to you is now a stranger, because you have drifted apart? Have you ever thought your relationship felt like a lie or at least half-truth? Do you have some family members that seem… Continue reading The Stranger in My House