How can you find Clarity in Your Relationship?

It came down to it, Does He Leave? or Do I leave? The Separation was needed and it was clear. 15 years of togetherness and we disliked each other. Each of us wanted to change the person that we were with. We were angry inside and passive aggressive on the outside. It showed in our kiss or the lack thereof. 4 weeks of clarity was our silent gift to ourselves and this relationship. It was hard but it needed to happen. No Glitz. No Glam. Just Self.

She told me that I was going to move. She said I will change my location. She said this day would happen but I didn’t believe it. He didn’t believe it. But it happened. I moved. I packed up my stuff walked out of the house and moved into a new one. We made a joint decision to find ourselves, by ourselves, in an environment that was foreign to us.  It was definitely scary, definitely painful, definitely out of character, and it was our awakening.

We had to WAKE the FUCK UP…

That’s all!

And everyone around us was forced to do the same.

It was the start of our 4 weeks of Clarity…

Clarity in your relationship starts with understanding that you both need space to think about your next moves and the future of the relationship in separate environments. This would allow you to stop the chatter around you and focus within.

Do you stay or Do you leave?

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Thank you for reading. My blogs are written creatively so that you can see yourself in my message. It may or may not be about me. Again… it’s a thought or conversation that I have with everyday people.

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One thought on “How can you find Clarity in Your Relationship?

  1. In life we take the bitter we the sweet. Now that it was sweet take the sweet n leave. Make your new life happy n sweet cause bitter with leave old n lonely.

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