Last week on Timna UnCut this question came up, “have you ever cried during sex?” Well, my co-host Moe has never cried during sex and he also couldn’t understand why someone would cry during this intimate moment. I must admit, I have CRIED…
So you may be wondering… Was it terrible? or Was it sooo amazing that you had to shed a tear?
I have cried during sex twice and both cries were for different reasons.
This cry was during an emotional overwhelming experience with a person, that I was in love with, that I had not seen for a long time. We made passionate love and we both cried. It was strange at first, because, I never experienced this before with no other guy, but he was no ordinary guy. He was my first everything. Maybe, that’s why it was so special. I felt crazy for a second that feeling of craziness went away quickly because I noticed that I was not alone, he was teary as well. Maybe, we cried because we both knew that we were not meant to be together. We were on two different paths in life. Therefore, I think the cry was amazing love making, sadness and joy at the same time. Years, later we built up the nerve to talk about that single experience. We came to the conclusion that it was an indescribable, overwhelming moment of euphoria wrapped up in built up emotions. We knew this was the last and only time for those feeling.
Hmmm.. just writing about it, I still remember how I felt that day and that moment. It was a remarkable, memorable experience.
I cried during an intimate sexual experience with my partner when I was in a dark depressive state and he was too. We were not aligned in our relationship, both of us were crying out for change and movement with in our life. Therefore, we were placed in a situation of wanting to satisfy each other but could’nt. I was disappointed in the synergy of the relationship and it came out during love making. I cried, looking for a loving feeling with internal response. It was the most heartbreaking experience in my life. However, the most rewarding. Why? You may ask. Well, because, this gave me an opportunity to express myself about my dissatisfaction in the relationship.
We knew that we needed to have a deep conversation of hard- truth and movement. We needed to make some changes in our relationship and we did!
Cry#1 – This was about love and the lost of love of an old relationship.
Cry #2 – This was about unhappiness, which allowed rebirth and renewal of the relationship.
Many of you might of experience crying during sex and some of you have never experienced this.
I can say, Yes, I cried during love making and, I can tell you it was one of the most fascinating emotional experience that I’ve had in my life.
A side note: Crying during sex can represent joy, sadness or even guilt! …
Tapping into your emotional, mental side during sexual intercourse can bring joy and wonder to your body! It’s what we call making love! Try it….. Shed a tear! Tell me about your experience in the comments section! Plus, Listen to Timna UnCut on BlogTalkRadio.com each and every Sunday Night at 10pm EST. Dial (347) 989-0749 to join the conversation LIVE this Sunday Night. We will be talking about “What do you do, if your partner lost their sexy?”
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