This question came up the other day when I was speaking to a friend. She asked me “Why do people go to Strip Clubs?”, “What do they get out of it?” especially, women! What is the deal?
Let’s talk about strip clubs!
Well, I will discuss my view points on male and female strip clubs. Remember this is a bit of a CRAZY topic, so beware!
Reasons why men go to strip clubs:
- Men go just for fun with friends or colleagues bachelor party, birthday or an after work hangout.
- Some Men have a lot testosterone that they need to release.
- Some Men have a fetish of some sort (touching strange women feet).
- Some Men use a strip club to show that they are a baller – money-maker – showing how big his dick is or “NOT”, he is the guy that makes it rain.
- Some Men are lonely, they want the “dream” of getting the attention of a young girl even if it is just for a few moments.
- Some Men use it for “the hunt” – SEX
- Some Men like to look at sexy women in the nude.
- Some Men are unhappy at home or work – they use it has de-stressor. They may be suffering from depression, or just down and out. AS LONG AS YOU PAY, THE WOMAN WILL ACCEPT YOU.
- Then there is “the savior” the guy who wants a relationship with a stripper to save her from the work she is doing… PLEASE… Anyways…
- Some just want a hook – up or jump off girl with money.
If you take 10 guys, 2 will be uncomfortable, 1 completely against it, 3 will tag along with the person who suggested it, 4 are immediately ready to go. Which one are you? Which one is your guy?
Most women would say, “I will kill my man if he goes to a strip club!” OK! Really!!!
The real situation is that they have gone, or they will go, but would never tell you because of your reaction. 🙂 However, there are a few men that are offended by the whole thing! So don’t worry that might be your man!
Oh, by the way, just because he calls himself a christian or religious doesn’t mean that he will not go or he has never been!
Reasons why women go to strip clubs:
- See picture below (laughing) ABS…
- Women go with friends for a birthday or bachelorette party.
- The average woman, do not find going to a male strip club sexual, but hilarious! Women laugh, scream and holler when they are at a male strip club. They are most likely in a large group ready to get drunk and scream!
- Women may go to women strip clubs because of the sexual experience or to see what their man is doing.
- Some women want to have paid sex with a sexy unattainable guy.
- Some women want to be aroused by another woman without having a sexual contact or obligation to have sex.
- Some women who frequent the same strip club maybe desperate or lonely.
- Some women have a fetish.
- Some women watch music videos/ movies and want it to coming to life! Acting out what they see.. Curious.
If you are going to venture out and experience a strip club choose a club that is right for you. Strip clubs are not created equal. It varies, from state to state and through class systems. It can be raunchy and in your face or sensual or a true aerobatics show. See Below!
In addition, strip clubs, gentlemen’s clubs, burlesque show and go-go dancing at a dance club are completely different things. Strip Clubs or Gentlemen’s clubs are by no means something great or good, it has its dark side. It is degrading for women and men in some shape or form. However, people do go and have gone because of the thrill, excitement and the mystic of it all. Should you go? That is completely up to you. Know that you will be spending a lot of money supporting a lifestyle that is not the best. Many women and men are products of abuse and assault in some ways. However, if you choose to go, have clean fun!
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